[Member Newsletter] Just Shut Up?
"Ann, I can't believe you're a nurse. You missed your calling as a writer, but you know it's never too late to write," Erma Bombeck told novelist Ann Garvin at her college graduation.
Those were powerful words because Ann had heard "Just shut up!" for her entire life.
Grant saw Ann deliver a keynote address at the Erma Bombeck Writers' Workshop and was inspired by Ann's rousing talk about not letting yourself be silenced, her modern-day Erma Bombeck spirit, and her message for writers to use grit, determination and Erma's spirit to fuel their writing journey. (And never shut up.)
10 Ways Writing Prompts Can Support You to Keep Writing
This week we are kicking off Memoir Showers, our April prompt-a-day invitation and challenge, with ten ways you can use prompts to support your writing journey. If you don’t usually write to prompts, give it a try! If you already love prompts, you’re in for a treat.
Memoir Showers: Let It Rain, Let It Pour
If there’s one word that Memoir Nation is about, it might be “momentum.” That’s one reason why we’re hosting Memoir Showers in April. It’s a month of prompts—which will rain down on you—to help energize you to keep writing. How to participate in Memoir Showers
RSVP!!!
And then write!
Under the Memoir Showers menu tab in our Community space, you will see EVENTS and DAILY ACTIONS.
Participate in the DAILY ACTIONS and record your progress. There will be a space for you to check that you've completed each day's action.
Substack for Memoirists
This week on the Memoir Nation newsletter, Brooke offers up five best practices for memoirists who are already on Substack or want to start a Substack. Substack is a great place to connect with fellow writers. It’s a place to grow community and an audience, and having some parameters for what you’ll write about and how you’ll go about it is always helpful. If you’re already doing it right, share your own tips. We’d love to hear from you and invite you to post your Substack URLS to the Weekly Question space as well. Write on!
Using Photos as an Invitation to Your Story
Why are prompts an invitation to writing? A prompt is, at its most basic, a door someone else opens for you. You didn’t choose it, but that’s not a limitation. That’s the whole point.
I like how photo prompts work differently than text prompts. A text prompt engages language immediately. You’re in the medium from the start. A photograph, however, speaks before language can form around it. You look at an image and you begin to conjure a feeling, a flash of memory, and only then do you reach for words. That gap between the image and the language is where the most interesting writing often lives.
Feedback Fridays & Why Open Readings Are So Meaningful
This week's newsletter considers the value of reading aloud in front of your Community here in Memoir Nation. We experimented with Feedback Friday last month and it was a huge success—because of the heartfelt experience of taking in the words from ten of you beautiful writers, and what the experience has to offer us, both as readers and as listeners. That reciprocity is what Brooke explores in this week's newsletter—and more Feedback Fridays to come.
Taking the Dare to Write Your Story (and Trust Your Story)
Can you remember a moment when you took a dare? When you stood on the precipice? Hesitation mixing with the desire to do something different, something more adventurous, perhaps even dangerous? Did you leap? Did you turn away?
At the core of taking a dare, we find bravery and defiance entwined. We dare to challenge the stories passed down to us that no longer fit. We also dare to reclaim and recreate our stories.
You Don’t Have to Be a Literary Writer to Tell a Powerful Story
This week’s Memoir Nation podcast with guest Sarah Aziza was the inspiration for Brooke's newsletter about literary memoir—and whether memoir necessarily needs to be literary or artistic to be important, or to be widely read. While artistic language can elevate a story, some readers simply want honest, accessible storytelling. This post is a reminder that memoirists don’t need to emulate literary writers—what matters most is writing in a voice that feels authentic and true to your story.
Writing in Harrowing Times
It’s easy to think that our art is trivial when it’s up against such a menacing and malevolent block of history as we’re living through, but the opposite is actually true: our art isn’t trivial; it’s what can deliver us.
It’s important to recognize trauma and depression and not force words onto the page. At the same time, we need to believe in the possibilities of our stories—and believe that our stories make a difference—because we need the truth and beauty of our words more so now than ever.
Keep It Going! & What’s Next
This week we're celebrating all the writers who participated in JanYourStory. Way to go! We encourage everyone to come and check out what's next at Memoir Nation, and to take a look at our membership offerings to keep the vibes going strong!
Grit Isn’t What You Think It Is
As JanYourStory enters its final week, Grant reconsiders what grit really means—especially for writers who may be feeling tired. While grit is often framed as sheer willpower or “grin and bear it” endurance, true grit is sustained by passion, purpose, play, and community. Drawing on Angela Duckworth’s research, this newsletter reframes grit not as solitary struggle but as a long-term relationship with meaningful work—one nourished by curiosity, shared effort, and joy. Grit, reimagined, is how we stay in love with the work.
5 Ways to Cross-Train Your Memoir Writing
This week’s newsletter offers up some respite for anyone who feels like they might be dragging a bit. You are invited to cross-train your memoir writing. Try one of these five offerings: 1) Do morning pages; 2) follow another thread; 3) take a shot at an op-ed; 4) write a letter; 5) do a Substack post. All of this counts, and builds your memoir-writing muscles.
Beginnings Are On Quitting (and Not Quitting)
This week's newsletter talks about the electric nature of beginnings—the jolt, the buzz, the urgency, the excitement of it all. Harness that energy, yes! But also get mentally prepared for when it dips by finding all kinds of ways to sustain the current through to the end of your project. This post is practical and inspirational, encouraging you to notice the highs and lows of your writing process.
Beginnings Are Electric but It’s How You Sustain the Current that Matters
This week's newsletter talks about the electric nature of beginnings—the jolt, the buzz, the urgency, the excitement of it all. Harness that energy, yes! But also get mentally prepared for when it dips by finding all kinds of ways to sustain the current through to the end of your project. This post is practical and inspirational, encouraging you to notice the highs and lows of your writing process.
Map to JanYourStory
This week’s newsletter is a roadmap to the first-ever JanYourStory, the Memoir Nation writing challenge to write 500 words a day every day in January.
Who Knows You’re Writing?
Writing is solitary, but it can also be communal. As JanYourStory approaches, Brooke offers an invitation to “write out loud” by sharing your commitment, inviting a friend, and discovering how community creates accountability, momentum, and connection.
It Takes a Village to Write a Memoir
We’re getting ready for JanYourStory. In this post, Grant writes about how community transforms creativity.
Finding Time in Our Finite Lives to Write the Stories and Books We Feel Called to Write
Brooke writes about time—its elusiveness, our challenging relationship with it, and the fact that there’s never enough of it. For writers, time is one of the most pressing things we’re up against, and so, if we want to do the writing we’re being called to do, we must not just find the time, but make the time. And we can!
Commitment = Your Finished Memoir
Books require one thing beyond inspiration, great ideas, and wonderful writing: commitment. Commitment is actually part of the recipe for inspiration, great ideas, and wonderful writing, but it doesn’t necessarily come easily.
Honor Your Writing, Honor Yourself
In this post, Brooke reflects on Mark Nepo’s teachings about honor, truth, and following what brings us alive, connecting those ideas to the vulnerable, courageous work of memoir writing. She invites writers to recognize their work as an act of honoring their lived experience and to share what supports them in staying the course amid doubt and fear.
